{"id":951,"date":"2010-04-14T17:47:05","date_gmt":"2010-04-14T21:47:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/rayvanneste.com\/?page_id=951"},"modified":"2013-08-01T17:39:46","modified_gmt":"2013-08-01T21:39:46","slug":"on-receiving-a-new-pastor","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"http:\/\/rayvanneste.com\/?page_id=951","title":{"rendered":"On Receiving a New Pastor"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Calling and receiving a new pastor is a significant occasion in the life of a church and therefore deserves some reflection.\u00a0 As a church you should, and I believe you do, want to receive your new pastor well.\u00a0 We would do well then to contemplate how you can receive him and his family well.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">The primary issue in receiving a new pastor well is to understand the nature of the pastorate.\u00a0 This is absolutely essential.\u00a0 You must have a clear idea of what you have called this man to do.\u00a0 You have called him to be your pastor, but what does this mean?\u00a0 If you are not clear on this you might end up like someone who is:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">&#8211;\u00a0 upset with a quarterback who has thrown dozens of touchdown passes but has yet to hit a single home run.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">&#8211;\u00a0 upset with a baseball coach who has won lots of games but has yet to win a Super Bowl.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">&#8211;\u00a0 upset with a math teacher who did not explain nouns and pronouns well.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">&#8211;\u00a0 pleased with a banker because he is so pleasant even though he cannot find your savings!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">If you are going to receive a new pastor well, if you are going to be a blessing to him, then you must have a clear, biblical view of what he is supposed to do.\u00a0 Otherwise you might end up giving him a hard time about things which are not his responsibilities or praising him for the wrong things.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Furthermore, a clear, biblical view of pastoral ministry cannot be assumed today.\u00a0 Rather, there is currently widespread misunderstanding and watering down of the pastorate, and this is tied to a diminished view of the church in general.\u00a0 Most individuals and churches, including pastors themselves, fail to understand the gravity, the weightiness, of pastoral ministry.\u00a0 I think the most common view is that the pastor is to fill the pulpit, be a nice guy and show up when needed.\u00a0 This flows from a view of church which might be summarized as follows: going to church is something decent Christian folk are supposed to do, so in order to get that done we need a preacher.\u00a0 In this view, the pastor should be enjoyable, easy to look at and listen to, certainly not talk very long, and generally not disturb life.\u00a0 But this is a far cry from biblical pastoring.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">I am convinced that scripturally the key metaphor for pastoral ministry is the oversight\/guarding of souls (Heb 13:17; Acts 20:28; the imagery contained in the words &#8220;pastor&#8221; and &#8220;overseer&#8221;).\u00a0 This is what you have called a man to do- to watch over your souls as you make your pilgrimage to the Celestial City.\u00a0 You have not simply called a man to keep programs going, but to guard your souls, to be a means of God&#8217;s grace in keeping you on the narrow path, to keep you from the shipwreck of your faith, to see you safely through this life and on to heaven- in short, to prevent your apostasy.\u00a0 Consider the high importance of this!\u00a0 This has been no ho-hum decision.\u00a0 This is in no way akin to choosing some service provider- &#8220;Which cable company or internet service provider should we choose?&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">If this is the lofty task to which this man is called, and for which God will hold him accountable (Heb 13:17), then how does one go about such a task.\u00a0 Primarily, the guarding of souls is done according to the two apostolic priorities found in Acts 6: 10 the ministry of the Word and 2) prayer.\u00a0 I will take these up in inverse order.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>Prayer<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">He will watch over your souls by regularly and earnestly praying for the church as a whole, its vision, mission, unity, health, impact, etc.\u00a0 Even more so, he will guard your souls by interceding for each one of you individually on a regular basis, praying for your spiritual health and growth.\u00a0 In this he will be imitating the Chief Shepherd who said to Peter, &#8220;Simon, Simon, behold, Satan has demanded [permission] to\u00a0 &#8220;sift you like wheat&#8221;;\u00a0 but I have prayed for you, that your faith may not fail; and you, when once you have turned again, strengthen your brothers&#8221; (Luke 22:31-32).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>Ministry of the Word<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">There are several facets of the ministry of the Word.\u00a0 Paul refers to the breadth of this ministry when he characterizes his ministry as not holding back any profitable teaching but teaching them &#8220;publicly and house to house&#8221; (Acts 20:20).\u00a0 Thus, there is both the public and private or personal aspects of the ministry of the Word.\u00a0 The public aspect is seen in sermons, and this is the bedrock of the ministry of the Word.\u00a0 Here the pastor guards the souls of his people by exposing, warning of and rebuking error and sin, teaching and reveling in truth and showing how this is to be lived out.\u00a0 In short, he is teaching the people how to make the journey.\u00a0 Then in one to one settings the pastor watches over your souls by making specific applications of the scripture to your own situations bringing out all the ways scripture is profitable- teaching, correcting, rebuking and instructing (2 Tim 3:16).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Much more could be said about pastoral ministry but this sums up what the heart of his task is.\u00a0 This is what you are to expect of him.\u00a0 What, then, can you do to receive him well?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">1.\u00a0 <strong>Encourage him in the apostolic priorities<\/strong>&#8211; If he is guarding your souls by preaching the word to you clearly and fully and is praying for you, then do not make much of other faults.\u00a0 Once you realize how deeply we need such oversight, once you truly yearn for the Word, you will be satisfied to receive it.\u00a0 Martin Luther once said, &#8220;Those who hunger for the Word will not complain about the platter on which it is served.&#8221;\u00a0 If you find that you are being taught and challenged from the Word don&#8217;t worry about his sense of fashion, the way his voice sounds, or whether or not he has completed your to do list.\u00a0 Indeed, far from complaining about these other things, let him know how your soul has been blessed by his labors.\u00a0 Let him know the benefit you receive from his teaching.\u00a0 The great apostle Paul when considering the weightiness of the work of preaching said, &#8220;Who is adequate for these things?&#8221; (2 Cor 2:16).\u00a0 As Paul sensed his inadequacy for the task, so any man who takes this calling seriously will feel and feel often the weight of his own inadequacies.\u00a0 He needs to know if the work of God is prospering in his hand.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">It is easy to forget that our pastors are human and need encouragement like everyone else.\u00a0 The more he loves you the more he will be burdened with worry over whether or not he is doing his task well.\u00a0 Let me give you an example.\u00a0 Here is what one godly, faithful pastor wrote one Monday morning.\u00a0 This is the brutally honest cry from the heart of a good pastor.\u00a0 Every good pastor I know feels like this sometime.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Is it just me or do all pastors feel on Monday like:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">1. I didn&#8217;t know my Bible well enough yesterday. There were too many questions left on the table.<br \/>\n2. I was not prepared enough in prayer and meditation. Rather, I just rushed to the pulpit after a dizzying morning of &#8220;Hellos,&#8221; &#8220;I&#8217;m sorries,&#8221; and &#8220;Good to see yous.&#8221; The time I complained about not having should have been spent in prayer and supplication.<br \/>\n3. I probably said something to someone I shouldn&#8217;t have.<br \/>\n4. I didn&#8217;t say something to someone I should have.<br \/>\n5. I was the unfortunate and pitiable topic of yesterday&#8217;s lunch conversation.<br \/>\n6. I failed to meet the church&#8217;s expectations, whatever they were.<br \/>\n7. I faked my way through &#8220;worship&#8221; and hope the church didn&#8217;t see through it.<br \/>\n8. I said nothing relevant, though I may have said some right things.<br \/>\n9. I spoke of holy things knowing full well holiness is the last word to describe me.<br \/>\n10. I am so egotistical to think yesterday was about my performance.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t want to feel this way as it is an affront to God&#8217;s sovereign grace. It&#8217;s obvious the recurring word above is &#8220;I.&#8221; But, I just can&#8217;t seem to help it. If you need me I&#8217;ll be under my favorite rock. (http:\/\/barryjmaxwell.blogspot.com\/2006_01_01_barryjmaxwell_archive.html)<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">As your pastor labors to care for and you, let him know you appreciate his labors in the word and prayer.\u00a0 And when he gives you this, don&#8217;t worry too much about other things.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">2.\u00a0 <strong>Give him time<\/strong>&#8211; If you do this first item, you must do this second one, for it takes time to earnestly pray and preach.\u00a0 Most people do not realize how much time it takes.\u00a0 Most of us have written a term paper somewhere along the way.\u00a0 Preparing a sermon is like writing a new term paper each week.\u00a0 Sermon preparation will easily consume 10-15 hours per week.\u00a0 If you want to really be fed from the Word, you must give him this time to prepare.\u00a0 Similarly, if you want your souls guarded in prayer, you must give him time.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Many people are willing to say their pastor should put this kind of time in, but the only way he can have this time is if some other demands are relaxed.\u00a0 You must not expect him to make every visit.\u00a0 We must reclaim a shared ministry where others are involved in checking in on people.\u00a0 Some people have the idea that it does not matter who comes to visit, the pastor must come.\u00a0 Get over such notions.\u00a0 He will make some visits and will be there at crucial times, but if you catch the vision of him guarding your souls you will not mind him missing some things.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Similarly, you must give him time, by freeing him up from as many other tasks as possible.\u00a0 When I came here as your interim, I received a key ring with many keys.\u00a0 Eventually it was determined that only two keys actually went to anything- one for the door and one for the towel dispensers in the bathrooms.\u00a0 When you give this keyring to your new pastor make sure this key to the towel dispensers is not on it.\u00a0 It is not that he is above refilling the dispensers.\u00a0 It is rather that you want to communicate to him that you want to free him up to do that which God expects of him and which you realize is so essential for your well-being.\u00a0 I think I have put together that this church has in the past been overly pastor-dependent. You have had nine months now to get over that.\u00a0 Don&#8217;t go back!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">3.\u00a0 <strong>Give him your ear<\/strong>&#8211; Be like the Bereans who &#8220;received the word with great eagerness&#8221;\u009d (Acts 17:11).\u00a0 As a result Scripture calls them &#8220;more noble-minded.&#8221;\u00a0 And, if you receive the word with eagerness you will be willing to give him time to preach.\u00a0 In the days of the Puritans, if a congregation appreciated their pastor they would sometimes give him an hourglass to time his sermon.\u00a0 If they really appreciated him they would grant him a second turn!\u00a0 Hungry souls do not complain about tarrying awhile about the buffet.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">4.\u00a0 <strong>Give him your prayers<\/strong>&#8211; Paul often asked the churches to pray for him. So in 2 Thess 3:1-2 he wrote, &#8220;Finally, brothers, pray for us that the word of the Lord will spread rapidly and be glorified &#8230; and that we will be rescued from perverse and evil men.&#8221;\u00a0 Your pastor will need your prayers as much as you will need his.\u00a0 On this point, we will do well to listen to the words of Gardiner Spring:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Let the thought sink deep into the heart of every church, that their minister will be very much such a minister as their prayers may make him.\u00a0 If nothing short of Omnipotent grace can make a Christian, nothing less than this can make a faithful and successful minister of the Gospel! (p. 34)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">If a people are looking for rich sermons from their minister, their prayers must supply him with the needed material; if they seek for faithful sermons, their prayers must urge him, by a full and uncompromising manifestation of the truth, to commend himself to every man&#8217;s conscience in the sight of God (see II Con 4:2) &#8211; If God&#8217;s people are going to expect powerful and successful sermons, their prayers must make him a blessing to the souls of men! (p. 35)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Oh, it is at a fearful expense that ministers are ever allowed to enter the pulpit without being preceded, accompanied, and followed by the earnest prayers of the churches. (p. 38)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Certainly Springer is right when he states, &#8220;Though little seen and less appreciated, those who help bear the pastoral burden through prayer are surely the most important co-workers any spiritual leader could ever have&#8221;\u009d (p. 31).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">5.\u00a0 <strong>Give him your respect<\/strong>&#8211; Heb 13:17<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">6.\u00a0 <strong>Give him your heart<\/strong>&#8211; Love him and his family<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">7.\u00a0 <strong>Give him your support<\/strong>&#8211; Here I am referring to your financial support.\u00a0 A friend of mine who is a lawyer and a leading layman in his church says you can never approach deliberation about pay for a pastor by asking what his work is worth.\u00a0 When you consider all he does and the eternal significance of it, you could never pay what it is worth.\u00a0 Therefore, the goal of financial support from the church is to remove as many temporal concerns as possible from his life so he can be freed up to do this awesome work.\u00a0 What this looks like in particulars will vary from church to church, but the spirit of it is what is so important.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">John Angell James once wrote:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Let all Christians therefore consider what is a just and generous reward for the labors of a man who is devoting his life to assist them in obtaining an inheritance incorruptible, undefiled and that does not fade away, an exceeding great and eternal weight of glory: who, in assisting them to gain eternal life, exerts at the same time an indirect, but beneficial influence upon all their material prosperity &#8211; who by his ministry, soothes their cares, lightens their sorrows, mortifies their sins. throws a radiance over their darkest scenes, and gilds their brightest ones with additional splendor. Who brings heaven down to earth for their comfort and elevates them from earth to heaven; and who, after tempering for them the ills of time with an anticipation of the joys of eternity, is prepared to attend them to the verge of the dark valley and irradiate its dark gloom with the visions of immortality.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Let it not be thought that what is given, to a minister is a charitable donation; it is the payment of a just debt. (p. 25)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">See: James, John Angell. <em>The Duties of Church Members to Their Pastors &amp; A Plea to Pray for Pastors<\/em> \/ <em>By John Angell James and by Gardiner Spring<\/em>.\u00a0 Amityville, NY: Calvary Press, 1999.\u00a0 (ISBN:1-879737-39-6)<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Calling and receiving a new pastor is a significant occasion in the life of a church and therefore deserves some reflection.\u00a0 As a church you should, and I believe you do, want to receive your new pastor well.\u00a0 We would do well then to contemplate how you can receive him and his family well. 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