{"id":4948,"date":"2017-02-08T16:08:57","date_gmt":"2017-02-08T20:08:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/rayvanneste.com\/?p=4948"},"modified":"2017-02-08T16:08:57","modified_gmt":"2017-02-08T20:08:57","slug":"a-marriage-poem-by-edgar-guest","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/rayvanneste.com\/?p=4948","title":{"rendered":"A Marriage Poem by Edgar Guest"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/scontent-ort2-1.xx.fbcdn.net\/v\/t1.0-9\/16602930_919878810142_6143882605846274097_n.jpg?oh=3d4c4ee82e6cd5c766456a2d73a2e761&amp;oe=593B0E10\" alt=\"Image may contain: 2 people, people smiling, people standing and wedding\" width=\"313\" height=\"419\" \/>I\u2019ve drawn my poem of the week this week from Edgar Guest, one of my favorite poets. Since this week marks my 25<sup>th<\/sup> wedding anniversary, I have chosen Guest\u2019s marriage poem, \u201cChums.\u201d Although I would not suggest changing the language of the \u201cmarriage rite\u201d as he alludes, his sentiment is exactly right. (And, Guest says \u201cfourteen years,\u201d which I have changed for my purposes to \u201ctwenty-five years.\u201d)<\/p>\n<p><strong>Chums<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>HUSBAND and wife for twenty-five years!<br \/>\nAnd just like children now,<br \/>\nAs fond of one another as<br \/>\nThe day they took their vow.<br \/>\nWhere he goes she goes, hand in hand,<br \/>\nAnd thus their record sums,<br \/>\nThrough all those years of joy and strife<br \/>\nThey really have been chums.<\/p>\n<p>Husband and wife. No, more than that,<br \/>\nFor husbands oft are known,<br \/>\nIn search of pleasure now and then,<br \/>\nTo journey off alone;<br \/>\nAnd wives have clubs and other things<br \/>\nThat interest them more<br \/>\nThan business plans their husbands make,<br \/>\nWhen honeymooning&#8217;s o&#8217;er.<\/p>\n<p>Not so with them \u2014 through weal or woe,<br \/>\nThrough sunshine and through rain,<br \/>\nTogether they have journeyed on;<br \/>\nShe cheered when all seemed vain.<br \/>\nHis greatest joys have always been<br \/>\nThe ones that she could share,<br \/>\nWe knew that when we saw the one,<br \/>\nThe other must be there.<\/p>\n<p>If I could change the marriage rite<br \/>\nThat binds a pair for life,<br \/>\n&#8216;T would be to drop that stilted phrase,<br \/>\n&#8216;You &#8216;re husband, now, and wife.&#8217;<br \/>\nFor just one little word, I think,<br \/>\nThe knot far more becomes;<br \/>\nI &#8216;d like to hear the parson say:<br \/>\n&#8216;Beloved, now you &#8216;re chums.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Edgar Guest<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019ve drawn my poem of the week this week from Edgar Guest, one of my favorite poets. Since this week marks my 25th wedding anniversary, I have chosen Guest\u2019s marriage poem, \u201cChums.\u201d Although I would not suggest changing the language of the \u201cmarriage rite\u201d as he alludes, his sentiment is exactly right. (And, Guest says &#8230;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/rayvanneste.com\/?p=4948\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading &lsquo;A Marriage Poem by Edgar Guest&rsquo; &raquo;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_links_to":"","_links_to_target":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[83,261],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/rayvanneste.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4948"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/rayvanneste.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/rayvanneste.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/rayvanneste.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/rayvanneste.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4948"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/rayvanneste.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4948\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4950,"href":"http:\/\/rayvanneste.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4948\/revisions\/4950"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/rayvanneste.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4948"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/rayvanneste.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4948"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/rayvanneste.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4948"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}