{"id":924,"date":"2010-02-12T14:42:00","date_gmt":"2010-02-12T18:42:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/rayvanneste.com\/?p=924"},"modified":"2013-06-19T12:03:22","modified_gmt":"2013-06-19T16:03:22","slug":"selfishness-vs-courage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/rayvanneste.com\/?p=924","title":{"rendered":"Selfishness vs. Courage"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><a style=\"clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\" href=\"http:\/\/4.bp.blogspot.com\/_xECWNO6yc9I\/S3Wgtmvy0cI\/AAAAAAAAAlA\/KdjeERjkPlM\/s1600-h\/Boyhood+and+beyond.jpg\"><img alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/4.bp.blogspot.com\/_xECWNO6yc9I\/S3Wgtmvy0cI\/AAAAAAAAAlA\/KdjeERjkPlM\/s320\/Boyhood+and+beyond.jpg\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<p>I find myself wanting to post a quote from Bob Schultz&#8217;s <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/1883934095?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=thechildrshou-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=1883934095\">Boyhood and Beyond<\/a><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"zptrupnukydrygmvjvbg\" style=\"margin: 0px;\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/www.assoc-amazon.com\/e\/ir?t=thechildrshou-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=1883934095\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" border=\"0\" \/> almost every day as we read through the book (see <a href=\"http:\/\/childrenshourbooks.blogspot.com\/2010\/02\/temptation.html\">previous post<\/a>). There is a wealth of wisdom here, and it stimulates good conversation. Today we read the chapter titled, &#8220;Leadership,&#8221;\u009d where he drew from the story of Ernest Schackleton, a story I have related to the boys before.<\/p>\n<p>Here are two strong excerpts from his application:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;Many boys are said to be shy. Their parents explain why their son did not say thank you or hello with the excuse, &#8216;Joey is just being shy today.&#8217;\u009d The truth is that Joey is just caught up in himself. Joey thinks too much of his own feelings and thoughts to consider someone else. Joey is simply selfish.&#8221;\u009d (111)<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Do you want to be a man with courage like Shackleton? Your biggest hindrance is selfishness. The selfish are not courageous. You must become a man who thinks of others. It is not waiting for some big chance to save lives that makes a hero; a hero is made by thinking of others in everyday situations.&#8221;\u009d (113)<\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I find myself wanting to post a quote from Bob Schultz&#8217;s Boyhood and Beyond almost every day as we read through the book (see previous post). There is a wealth of wisdom here, and it stimulates good conversation. Today we read the chapter titled, &#8220;Leadership,&#8221;\u009d where he drew from the story of Ernest Schackleton, a &#8230;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/rayvanneste.com\/?p=924\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading &lsquo;Selfishness vs. Courage&rsquo; &raquo;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_links_to":"","_links_to_target":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[272,36,246],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/rayvanneste.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/924"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/rayvanneste.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/rayvanneste.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/rayvanneste.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/rayvanneste.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=924"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/rayvanneste.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/924\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2884,"href":"http:\/\/rayvanneste.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/924\/revisions\/2884"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/rayvanneste.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=924"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/rayvanneste.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=924"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/rayvanneste.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=924"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}